We understand how sad it must feel to live your truth outside of bisexual visibility day. Especially when you feel like your identity isn鈥檛 valid and you don鈥檛 see enough bisexual representation in mainstream media.
That鈥檚 why we鈥檝e come up with seven simple ways to feel less invisible as a bisexual person.
Walk anywhere and take whatever you like
I mean, you鈥檙e already invisible so do crime. How will they see you to catch? Walk into that store you鈥檝e been eyeing for months and pick whatever you like. In fact, go to an amala joint and just dish whatever you like, eat and don鈥檛 pay. You鈥檙e basically untouchable at this point.
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Walk up to random people and shout, 鈥淚t鈥檚 just a phase.鈥
I strongly suggest you make use of a megaphone so it鈥檚 more effective. Since everybody thinks it鈥檚 okay to tell you how to identify, they should be okay hearing it back too. If you like, set a reminder to send this to random group chats daily. Anything to get the message across. They already think you鈥檙e bisexual for attention anyway.
Wear the flag everywhere
It鈥檚 a beautiful flag, so buy many yards to sew as many clothes as possible. It鈥檒l call attention to you, and maybe you鈥檒l be more visible. It鈥檒l also make Tunde from bumble stop saying stupid shit like, 鈥淲ow, I鈥檝e never met a bisexual in my life鈥, before proceeding to ask for a threesome.
Choose yourself
Since everyone鈥檚 favourite pastime is to tell you to pick a side, don鈥檛 let them know your next move. Choose yourself instead. As a bisexual person, your dating pool is instantly smaller because queer women think you鈥檇 cheat, and the men just want threesomes. Spare yourself all that and date yourself. It can鈥檛 get more self-love than that.
Watch music videos that were your bisexual awakening
Like everyone else, there must be one or ten music videos that were your queer awakening. Whether it鈥檚 all of Beyonce’s music videos or that one song with , it鈥檚 hard to feel invisible when you鈥檙e watching things that make you feel seen.
Take a quiz
You know nothing makes you feel better than a good 鈥淗ow bisexual are you quiz鈥. Maybe you鈥檒l finally figure it out, or probably not. Because your attraction to both genders might not be equal, and that鈥檚 okay.
Watch your favourite shows
I know you watch it for the plot and amazing OST, and not for the two very different characters you have a crush on. When you feel the most invisible, you can always find comfort in romanticising a life where you鈥檙e married to both your celebrity crushes.
