Pop culture tends to hype big penises a lot. Half the time, it鈥檚 because we鈥檙e of the impression that the bigger the penis, the better the sex. But that鈥檚 not always the case. These seven Nigerian men have told us their struggles with owning big dicks.
Chinedu, 26
Dick length: 8 inches
It鈥檚 only online that women like big penises. In real life, it鈥檚 a different ball game. I think one of the major struggles I face is that I have to be very careful during sex so I don鈥檛 go too hard or fast during sex for most people so it doesn鈥檛 hurt them. Sometimes the sex is tiring because most of it involves me taking it too easy in trying to be careful, so I can鈥檛 fully immerse myself or enjoy it. Also, I鈥檝e had girls refuse to sleep with me because of my penis size. It even happened just last week. Having a big penis is more of a curse than a blessing. I鈥檇 prefer to have a medium-sized penis, to be honest.
Femi, 19
Dick Length: 9.5 inches
I鈥檝e given up on sex. I鈥檓 bisexual, so trying to have a sexual life with a big penis can be exhausting. The last time I had sex was in December, and it just didn鈥檛 work out. My penis is curved, so it was hurting the person even more, and it鈥檚 not like I have that much experience with sex yet. The man couldn鈥檛 walk, and I swear, I鈥檓 not exaggerating. We couldn鈥檛 even finish; we just made out for the rest of the night. And it鈥檚 more difficult with women. The two girls I鈥檝e tried to have sex with couldn鈥檛 take it at all. I鈥檝e decided to stick to only making out and foreplay for now.
Emeka, 27
Dick Length: 9 inches
It鈥檚 hard to find women that actually want to have sex with me the way I want. I like it when it鈥檚 intense and when it鈥檚 with someone that genuinely wants to have sex with me too. And for someone with a penis my size, it鈥檚 rare AF.
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Jude, 27
Dick Length: 9 inches
As a grower, I’ve had a lot of women who wanted to get sexual with me think my size is fine. But when it鈥檚 time to have sex and it gets fully erect, they鈥檒l run away and never come back. Funny, because my penis isn鈥檛 even as big as I want it to be yet.
Let鈥檚 not even talk about the embarrassing erections that can never be hidden no matter what I do or wear. One time during my NYSC service, I slept off during one of those long boring talks, and when I woke up, I had a crazy hard-on. The girl next to me had to tell me to pat it down. I was so embarrassed.
Ahmed, 39
Dick Length: 7.5 inches
When you have a big penis, you have to take extra care not to hurt or bruise your partner. You have to be inventive with positioning and you can鈥檛 afford to go out of control or get lost in the heat of the moment. And that can be really difficult. It takes a lot of patience and practice. For most women I鈥檝e been with, it took a while to adjust, but lube and foreplay have helped. Buying the right size of condoms has also been a struggle for me, especially when I travel to countries where the average size they have is less than 7 inches. I once had a weird experience in Portugal where I was searching all over town for extra-large condoms.
Temi, 24
Dick Length: Almost 9 inches
In secondary school, people liked to mention my penis size a lot. While having my bath, a lot of boys would look at my penis and call me “Small But Mighty”. And not just boys: one time I was seen having my bath by a female lieutenant (junior rank in the navy) and she started calling me by my English name, Armstrong, but with too much emphasis on the “strong”.
To be very honest, the part I don鈥檛 really like about having a big penis is the insertion. It takes extra foreplay and lubrication to go in. For the first few minutes, it鈥檚 all adjustments and trying to be careful. Sometimes I forget and go all in and then. boop! I鈥檝e caused pain or discomfort.
Backshots aren鈥檛 really as “backshotty” as they should be, and that鈥檚 because I can鈥檛 go all in, and hence there鈥檚 no clapping, and that鈥檚 not enjoyable.
Tobi, 24
Dick Length: 9 inches
I was sexting a girl once, and as we were talking on the phone, I sent her a picture of my penis on Snapchat. I told her to check her snap and when she did, she said, “Jesus,” and cut the call. We haven鈥檛 spoken since then. Some women are skeptical about having sex with me due to my size. One ghosted me on and off, and she tried to pass me off to her friend, but nothing materialised from either.
Apart from that, there鈥檚 the bleeding. Basically, no matter how wet she is, she might dry up a bit due to friction. To avoid this, I make sure the women cum first through foreplay. This is good lubrication, and also so that they are satisfied, so that when I start satisfying myself, I don鈥檛 hear story.
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