had just moved back to Nigeria. Her life in the UK had not been bad. She had a corporate job that paid the bills. But it wasn’t what she wanted for herself. A year before her father died, she had told him about her plans to move back home. He was a great singer and orator. He had ALS and, in his last days, lost his voice. It 鈥渇ucked鈥 with her. So, with the clarity that sometimes comes with grief, she made the plunge.
Hours after she set foot into the country, her unpacked bags still lying in a room, she went on TikTok and saw a user post a picture of 鈥渁 white Jesus.鈥 鈥淚 was like, Jesus is not white?鈥 she said in an interview with 91大神. Then she posted her rebuttal; snarky, piercing, with a huge dose of wit. 鈥淭hat was my first content that did mad numbers.鈥
Some years later, she has become a kind of gossip whisperer on TikTok, the Gistlover for the Republic Journal set鈥攈er videos laced with historical context, narrative arcs, and catchphrases like 鈥渢rigger warning.鈥 And they are fact-checked.
鈥淚 used to be very adamant that I鈥檓 not a content creator. But three days ago, I had a bit of a moment with myself in my head, and I was like, 鈥楢ida, I think we want to do this. This is fun.鈥欌
After on the 鈥渢radwive鈥 was published in the Times of London, Aida was among the first creators with a vast Nigerian audience to jump on it. Feminists seized the story as emblematic of a backlash against female advancement. Among the Alpha male influencers, it was evidence that women were not built for the workplace. Aida鈥檚 own retelling of the story was laced with nuance, at times offering the story as a fairytale and then as a very weird episode of Get Me Out Of Here.
鈥淥ne thing that cemented in me that I wanted to do this is the comments and messages that I get. 鈥極oh, my God, you explain such heavy topics with humour, and I鈥檓 still going to laugh.鈥 That was it for me,鈥 she said.
鈥淚 think it鈥檚 because of my default perspective that the content comes off that way. The way I attack these stories is the way I see life. I am already of the default notion that nuances exist in everything that we do. It doesn鈥檛 make any sense for me to add insult. I don’t look for instances where I can insult people.鈥
She was born in Lagos. Her family moved to Texas in the US and then to California. She flew across the pond for university and ended up in the UK.
Aida was talking about how she got the name Aida, which was not her parents鈥 given name but has become the name friends and family use for her, and that her over 130k followers on TikTok know her as. It was her Spanish high school teacher who first called her Aida. Living in the US meant attending an American school where her classmates didn’t bother or sometimes just bluntly refused to pronounce her name properly.

Her name is Nnenna, Nnenna Ngene. But at home, she was also called Ada. So when she grew tired of Nnenna not being pronounced well, she started going by Ada at school. 鈥淎ida,鈥 the Spanish teacher kept calling in class. Nnenna sat still in her chair. It could not have been her. Then the teacher walked to her desk and called her, 鈥淎ida.鈥 She told her she was 鈥淎da鈥 but asked what 鈥淎ida鈥 meant.
Aida鈥擥ift, happy, moon. These types of things appealed to her, so she added the 鈥渋鈥 to 鈥淎da鈥 and made it her name.
She didn’t come to TikTok unaware of the environment she was in鈥攍ive sessions of TikTokers dragging each other for filth, 鈥渞oast sessions,鈥 and 鈥渞ead sessions.鈥 She has had her fair share. In 2022, a TikToker called her out over an incident concerning a wig. Most recently, a male TikToker put up her picture for a read about something related to her body.
鈥淚 really just ignore. I choose not to engage,鈥 she said. 鈥淣igeria is a very classist society, and if you want to insult me, you tell me I’m broke, what鈥檚 next? Or you tell me I’m fat. A lot of these things don鈥檛 determine my self-worth.鈥
Moving to Nigeria when many young Nigerians are looking to japa is not strange to her family. Her brother, like her, had earlier moved to Nigeria and got into the Big Brother Naija house. But even for them, her decision to move back came with pushback. Her mother didn’t want her to.
鈥淚鈥檝e been called stupid because all of us here are looking for means to japa. But I’m like, 鈥業t鈥檚 not for you to understand.鈥 I know the trajectory of my own life and where I鈥檓 going. I don鈥檛 want to shed my own identity working for someone. It’s not my dream to work in a corporate setting,鈥 she said.
鈥淢y dream is to work at . I read that there is a human library somewhere in Asia, and I said, 鈥榃here do I sign up?鈥 I want to listen and speak to people. The human experience is marvellous.鈥
On TikTok, she has spoken about everything from Bobrisky to Opeyemi Famakin and even cowgirl, the in/famous sex position (depending on who you ask). How does she decide on these topics?
鈥淎nything I find interesting,鈥 she said. 鈥淚f there are a lot of details to the story, I鈥檒l make bullet points. But a script is hard to follow. You can tell when I’m reading from a script. It doesn’t sound very human. I really just want to gist in front of my ring light.鈥
Like her brother, Aida also sent in her audition tape for Big Brother Naija but was rejected. She has a theory for why that happened.
鈥淚 live in the underbelly of the entertainment industry. The people that I kick it with, in the industry, we kick it at three in the night when the witches and wizards are outside. I don’t partake in oppression Olympics. I don’t have that personality. You know what classism does to people? You want to break away from being the underpart of classism, to get to the top and be like, 鈥業 too, I鈥檓 big.鈥 That’s not who I am at all. Because I don’t have that personality, and I鈥檓 now open with the things I support鈥擨 want you to question religion鈥攖hat鈥檚 not good for business in Nigeria,鈥 she said.
鈥淚 will enter the house, and if somebody wants to make out with me and she happens to have a vagina, I might just make out with her. That is not good for business in Nigeria. I don’t beef them for the rejection. I completely understand it.鈥
In the past few months, creators have been open about government agencies showing up in their DMs with demands. The food critic Famakin recently revealed that after he bragged about how much he earns, FIRS demanded that he pay taxes. Aida has had her fair share. After she posted about a government agency, the agency reached out, and she said, 鈥渢hreatened me to take down the video.鈥 She refused. It’s been almost a year since the incident.
鈥淚’m not scared to open people鈥檚 yansh. Nigeria is not a just place, so if you lean toward being fair, being of that type of mentality is not good for business, especially as a woman. They want you to wear your bone straight. They want you to do your lashes. They want you to shut up and be pretty,鈥 she said.
鈥淚 will not shut up.鈥
She has not outwardly advertised her content. She has not done 鈥50% off for the next 48 hours鈥 or 鈥渟pecial packages for small businesses.鈥 But she has received offers.
鈥淚 won’t say I’m the most moral person in the world. But I have principles,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 get a lot of offers from these organic bleaching cream people. And I’m like, 鈥業 used to insult people like you. Why will I go and promote it?鈥 And forex, too. I did a promo for one, but it really tugged at me, so I said, 鈥楴ever again.鈥欌
She also had someone who wanted her to promote their restaurant. 鈥淏ut then the conversation became, wear bone straight, do your eyelashes. And I said, 鈥楴ah.鈥欌
She had a media upstart that wanted to produce a podcast for her. 鈥淭hey said they wanted to collaborate with a clinic in Lagos, and the clinic was going to give me a BBL. They were like, 鈥業t’s good for the image.鈥欌 She turned them down.
鈥淚鈥檓 not easily digestible for the Nigerian society, especially because I am a woman. I am not going to bow down because someone reminds me that I get vagina,鈥 she said.
But she didn’t say no to podcasts entirely. 鈥淲hat I’m leaning towards is YouTube. More long-form content. A bit more cinematic.鈥 She has also started posting short-form vlogs.
I asked her where she sees herself in five years. 鈥淟ifestyle or career-wise?鈥 she asked. Both. For career, she wants her podcast out, have a film she wrote in production and her book on someone鈥檚 shelf.
For lifestyle, she said, 鈥淚 am in my garden with my cat. Hopefully, she may have had a baby or two, so it’ll probably be three of us. I enjoy being by myself, so I’ll still be by myself in a sprawling studio apartment in Enugu state, smoking some good marijuana.鈥




