Choosing friends is a big deal. Trust me, you don鈥檛 want the person holding all your secrets to wake up one day and decide not to have sense.
And if you already have a friend group, you鈥檒l understand how important it is not to bring someone new who鈥檇 scatter your friendship dynamic. Ask new applicants these questions so you can make the right choice.
Semo or pap?
Trick question because there鈥檚 no right answer. If they pick either, they deserve to be locked up with their preferred option. Good riddance.
Will you take my side?
Imagine having a friend who you share gist about your foolish ex with, and they have the audacity to say, 鈥淚 think your ex might be right, though.鈥 What the actual heck?
Can you take fire pictures?
Your social media can鈥檛 contain selfies only. It won鈥檛 hurt to have another friend to help you get your best angles.
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Do you usually keep secrets?
Before you鈥檒l go and be doing friendship with someone who鈥檒l japa and call to inform you from the abroad three years later.
How many people do you know?
Like a wise person once said, 鈥渨e rise by lifting others.鈥 We all need a connected friend. They don鈥檛 even need to be rich rich. If they can score you extra meat at an owambe, hold them tight.
Do you have sense?
If they take it as an insult, they really don鈥檛 have sense.
Do you like advice?
Not the one that鈥檒l complain about their cheating partner all day, but will still be ignoring your advice to leave them. They can even wake up and claim you鈥檙e the enemy of their weyrey lover.
Are you stingy?
Again, they don鈥檛 have to be rich. But a good friend should be able to share nice things with you, and vice versa.
Are you dramatic?
Make your choice based on the level of drama you can live with. Imagine being friends with someone who under or over-matches your energy. God abeg.
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