There are times when you see things that other people have that you like and want. Sometimes, what you want is somebody else鈥檚 boyfriend. Here are the pros and cons of doing that first.
Pro: You can enjoy his money with no feelings attached
You can finish his money without feeling guilty. You鈥檙e not his partner, so you don鈥檛 have to worry about his future or the future of your relationship. If he can鈥檛 afford to pay rent, it doesn鈥檛 affect you because you鈥檙e not the one that鈥檒l end up with him. Spend that man鈥檚 money with your full chest.
Con: They will beat you
See ehn, if by any chance you鈥檙e caught, they will beat you shege and disgrace you. You may end up in the ICU. Don鈥檛 say we didn鈥檛 warn you.
Pro: You get to fornicate with other people without guilt聽
He鈥檚 not your boyfriend, so no commitment. That means you can fornicate with as many people as you want without feeling guilty. If he begins to complain, tell him he should go and meet his babe and not stress you.
Con: You can鈥檛 complain if they cheat
As you鈥檙e doing your own, just know that he can do his own too. Because he鈥檚 cheating with you doesn鈥檛 mean that you鈥檙e the only one. And you鈥檙e in no position to get jealous or upset because he鈥檚 not your man.
Pro: You get a boyfriend
You may get some of the perks of having a boyfriend, such as dates, cute messages, gifts, etc. At the same time, you don鈥檛 have to do the duties that a partner would, such as family visits, being friends with his friends or worrying too much about fighting.
Con: You have to hide
You may have to travel to FESTAC to find a decent place to spend time together, where the original person that owns the man, won鈥檛 catch you. If you go anywhere public, friends of his partner or the actual partner may see you. And kasala might burst.
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Pro: You don鈥檛 have to do too much
His actual partner has everything covered. In terms of gifts, intentional communication, quality time, etc. You don鈥檛 have to make too much of an effort; somebody is already doing all the hard work. Just show up, collect what you want to collect, and go.
Con: You鈥檒l be hidden
He probably saves your name as MTN. SMH no manners.
Pro: He鈥檒l give you a dick to ride on
When he鈥檚 upset about something that happened with his partner, he鈥檒l come to you for comfort. Added to that comfort, is fornication. After all, 滨鈥檓-耻辫蝉别迟-补苍诲-滨-苍别别诲-蝉辞尘别辞苍别-迟辞-迟补濒办-迟辞 knacks is the second-best type of sex after 飞别-蝉丑辞耻濒诲苍鈥檛-产别-诲辞颈苍驳-迟丑颈蝉 sex.
Con: You’re always a shoulder to cry on
On the flip side, every time he and his partner fight, he鈥檒l come and cry and whine to you, and that鈥檚 not what you signed up for. You鈥檙e not there to help him sort out his relationship issues.
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