Not everyone hates their exes, some people still have fond memories of the ones who got away. Sometimes, relationships don鈥檛 work for reasons beyond our control and some people still hold their exes dear to them. Here are what some people have to say about their favourite ex:
David, 35
I have known her since I was in primary school, we grew up in the same area. My favourite thing about her was her pure innocence.听Both of us spent a lot of time behind closed doors, gisting, playing games, talking about everyone in the family and sharing our dreams. At one point, we were told to stop closing the door (I never understood what was inferred until much later).
We never went beyond kissing and hugging when we were much older and emotions were flying. I prayed to God that if I married her, I won鈥檛 ask for anything else.听We were together for a little over 15 years, but we drifted apart when her family moved to another state. There were no reliable means of communication back then, so our relationship suffered.听
We still talk till today and try to support one another emotionally especially if our partners are giving us sticks. We got married to different people after a brief stint of misunderstanding and have two children apiece.
Gbemi, 24
My favourite memory of her was the last time we saw each other physically. She a few months after we started dating to continue her education. It became a long-distance relationship from then, so I hadn鈥檛 seen her for like a year.听 She flew back to Nigeria to spend a week, and during that time, we were only able to see each other once. It felt really special.听
Many things make her so special, but if I鈥檒l state one specifically, it would be her heart. She is a very loving and caring person, at times I wonder how anyone can be so selfless. She always puts others before herself! Although that is not necessarily always a good thing, it was something I admired a lot about her.
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I loved how timid and shy she can be, how understanding she is. How she knows how to listen to me or proffer solutions to my problems. She has a really big heart. We broke up because we couldn鈥檛 come to a middle ground regarding certain issues. She is from a Muslim background, a Muslimah to the core and her family holds their religious values in high esteem.
It was also made clear that her family would never let her be with a non-Muslim and she wasn’t willing to change religions. I wasn鈥檛 willing to switch either. We talked about the consequences and we decided to let go of each other and go our separate ways.
Mimi, 22
My favourite thing was his heart and how easygoing he was. He always tried to make other people happy at his own expense. He was an open book, he rarely ever lied, he communicated his feeling and cried when he was sad. I never ever had to guess how he felt about me, even from when we just started.
The hard part, it鈥檚 hard to explain but the whole relationship has been long-distance and we always thought we鈥檇 be in the same space at some point, but things keep changing our plans. There were a few reoccurring issues about some things and it felt like love wasn鈥檛 enough.
We were together for 3yrs- we still talk from time to time.
Prince
My favourite thing about her is her selflessness, she’s bold and courageous, (na she dey ginger me most times). She cares a lot, if not too much and she鈥檚 very mature.
We dated for almost 3 years.it is the longest relationship I’ve been in. We met in the university, we were both in 200 level at the time. I told my mum about her, she said she prayed about it and we don’t fit. We continued dating for the rest of our time at university. I had to break up with her when she left for camp. She was so devastated because her mum had just died.听
We broke up because of my parents – especially my mum. My mum hadn鈥檛 met her, yet she disliked her.听We talk sometimes, a couple of months ago we connected with each other – I visited her last weekend.听听
Ada, 24
He was and still is a very caring and understanding person. I think he鈥檚 the ex that has understood me the most. He鈥檚 also very supportive. He鈥檚 still a part of my life( no strings attached, just friends – at least on my own end).
We dated for almost 2 years. I think my favourite thing about him was that he trusted my judgment, like how can someone just believe in you like that? Lol. He also cared for people I care about, from my family down to my friends.听
Well, we broke up because I wasn鈥檛 in love with him. My conscience couldn鈥檛 help it anymore, I听 had to end the relationship because he was getting serious and I knew I just wasn鈥檛 into him. We still talk, he patronizes my business as well, tries to send gifts but I just had to set up a boundary to avoid wahala.
Tammy, 25
My favourite memory of him is the day he found out he was going to be a dad, it was also the day he proposed to me. Unfortunately, our child didn鈥檛 survive. He is such an amazing person, very kind and caring. He never raised his voice at me, no matter how angry he got, and I annoyed him a lot because me sef I know I鈥檓 a lot to handle.
We broke up because he cheated on me, after 2 years of being together.
